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A Photo (or Photographer) Can Serve Many Purposes: Sitting Down with Angela Michelle

September 5, 2018 by Cory Ames

I scheduled time to meet with Angela Michelle on a weekday afternoon. I recently began a project to learn photography from the ground up. I’m reaching out to experienced photographers hoping to jumpstart the process.

Angela Michelle owns Raven Red Photography. She shoots boudoir photography here in San Antonio, Texas. Angela, kind enough to respond to a cold email, invited me to chat at her studio.

Bou…What?

Before meeting Angela, I had my questions about boudoir.

Why does she want to take photos of people in the buff? And why do people want these photos taken? Also, how do you pronounce boudoir?

I decided to do my research beforehand. I spent a few hours browsing Raven Red’s site and Facebook page.

I came to find the client testimonials were raving:

“I admire Angela not just as a photographer but as a person who makes a difference by spreading love, capturing beauty and sharing that with the world!” 

“Angela is also a wonderful advocate for body-positivity in a world filled with negativity and shame. Angela is the breath of fresh air everyone should experience at least once in their life.” 

I could continue. Between her website and her Facebook page, there are over 100 reviews of similar praise.

And that wasn’t all I discovered. I came across her most recent blog posts. In these posts, Angela writes of her recent health troubles.

I learn that Angela suffered a stroke about a year ago. At the time, she was pregnant. She lost the baby and was left completely blind in one eye.

Angela has antiphospholipid syndrome. Her own immune system attacks the normal, healthy proteins in her blood. This can cause blood clotting which can lead to strokes and complications with pregnancies.

At the moment, there is no cure for antiphospholipid syndrome.

I learned all this a few hours before speaking with Angela. Without having shaken her hand, I’m making assumptions about Angela’s strength and passion for her work.

I became more and more excited to get the chance to ask her a few questions about her and what she does.

Sitting on the floor with Angela Michelle

Raven Red’s studio is unassuming, a bit small, but open. The studio is on the second floor of a modernized building on the corner of Buena Vista and Alazan in San Antonio.

Angela’s dog welcomed me at the door. “She’s all bark,” Angela said.

The studio is barren at the moment. Angela explained to me she’s moving to a larger space in the same building. Seems things are going well.

Due to the move, there aren’t many places to sit. Angela apologized that dog hair covered the only couch and she began sweeping it off.  I assured her that between my girlfriend and a puppy, I am no stranger to shedding.

The dog took its place on the couch. Angela took a seat on the floor, and I followed.

Then we began our chat.

Our chat began with her father. A photographer in the military, Angela’s dad made her the subject of many a photo experiment.

Early on she realized she didn’t enjoy being in front of the camera. She didn’t immediately realize it was behind the camera that would better suit her.

Angela explained to me that she grew up as, and still is an “anxious person.” Later on, she told me she found that being behind the camera allowed her to be “social without being social.”

“The camera acted as a block” for her, she said. She got to be out and social. And, she still felt comfortable.

She took to this experience of being behind the camera rather well.

20 years of professional shooting, and now she’s here.

Angela runs a successful boudoir photography studio. As well, it seems she can pronounce the word “boudoir” rather well (luckily, she said it before I had to).

She takes on 8-10 clients per month working 25-35 hours on average with each engagement.

She’s looking to expand Raven Red. As mentioned, she’s moving to a larger studio. And she’s looking at bringing on associate photographers whom she can mentor.

The Professional vs. The Amateur

Angela Michelle is a professional. She knows what works and what doesn’t work.

She told me “wardrobe, lighting, and posing. Those are my tools in shooting portraits.”

She shows up and does her work. She doesn’t wait for inspiration, she has a process.

She told me, “I don’t know how the light will be, I don’t know what mood I’ll be in, I don’t know what mood the client will be in. I shoot what’s in front of me.”

She plans. In fact, she believes the planning stage with her clients can be the most fun.

Here, “you build a connection with your client,” Angela told me. She went on to say, “this may be the most important part.”

Connecting with what or who you are shooting dramatically dictates the final product Angela explained to me.

“I’m not just selling photos…”

Angela is a master of her craft. This mastery allows Angela to fulfill a much larger purpose with her work.

I asked Angela how her health troubles this last year changed how she experiences her work now.

“It made my work more personal,” she said.

Losing her child, losing vision in one eye, and being on the verge of death, Angela had some serious existential questions. Rightfully so.

Facing the reality that she won’t bear children, Angela wondered what she would leave behind. Of course, she came back to her work. “I realized, my photos are my children,” she said. And to quote one of Angela’s recent blog posts,

“My job is to empower people to accept, appreciate, and love their body.”

Knowing what it’s like to “be at war with your body,” as Angela explained it, who better than her to have that duty.

Purposelessness? No way.

In fact, Angela is one of the most purposeful people I’ve connected with in some time.

Angela likened her clients’ experience with her to a “ritual.” And she continued, “rituals are a way of symbolizing a transformation.” Like a wedding symbolizes the transformation of two individuals’ relationship status, her studio sessions with clients symbolize a transformation with their relationships to themselves.

Clients come into the Raven Red studio nervous, uneasy, and sometimes anxious.

“Everybody comes in hating something about their bodies. Through our work together, my job is to not tell, but show them how beautiful they are.  By the time we are done, they’ve learned to love themselves again.”

I am deeply impressed with Angela Michelle. I admire how she runs her studio.

Her purpose and conviction in her work make her magnetic. Clients are lucky to have worked with her. And, I can only imagine how her future associates will feel to work for her.

Filed Under: Interviews, Photography

Anything You Want By Derek Sivers: Summary & 5 Key Takeaways

August 29, 2018 by Cory Ames

Derek Sivers is my favorite kind of entrepreneur. And, I think you won’t be able to help but like him too…

Why?

Well, it’s not because we seem to agree on most things…(yes, that’s a large part), but it’s because of his confidence and conviction to be exactly the type of entrepreneur he wants to be.



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Not, what or who others expect him to be.

This is a complex of my own. I’m technically an “entrepreneur” (I hate that word and I’ve said it 3 times already in this post), but I don’t feel completely aligned with the culture around entrepreneurship and small business.

Money and profits drive the motivations of many of these folks. Or, not so much money, but what they think it will give them; status, power, a feeling of “I’m ok.”

We could talk at length about ROI, about aligning incentives, and the funding your startup hopes to receive…or we could talk about what business and the creative spirit of entrepreneurship really is about, helping other people.

And it’s these things that I like most about Derek, and reading Anything You Want: 40 Lessons for a New Kind of Entrepreneur affirmed that.

This isn’t an ordinary business book. Derek doesn’t talk ROI nor does he encourage you to “hustle, hustle, hustle.” In this book, Derek encourages you to abide by a few simple principles, principles that many entrepreneurs over look, and it all begins with making your journey through entrepreneurship…exactly what you want.

Through the beginnings of CD Baby to being dissed by Apple’s CEO Steve Jobs in a keynote, Derek’s stories help demonstrate the lessons he’s trying to share clearly.

A post like this is a digest for me of my notes, takeaways and in some cases necessary summary of what I read. So, I recommend reading the book first, before digging into these posts. You can find Derek’s book on Amazon, here.

This book of Derek’s is a quick read! You can finish it in one Sunday, like I did. 🙂

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Source: https://sivers.org/

Brief Background on Derek Sivers

Derek Sivers is an entrepreneur and musician. He founded the online business CD Baby, a platform for independent musicians to sell their music, and sold the company for $22 million dollars. This book, Anything You Want…is all about his journey of starting, growing and ultimately selling CD Baby, and all the lessons he learned as a product of that.

If you want to hear more from Derek, I highly recommend checking out some of his presentations, Ted Talks, and various keynotes here. Also, where I first encountered Derek, a great interview with Tim Ferriss, here.

Who might this book be good for?

  • The “non-traditional” entrepreneur – Does something feel “off” to you in traditional business culture? Do useless widgets and startup “buzz” irk you in some sort of insatiable way?
  • The aspiring (or early stage) entrepreneur – This very short book has moved to the top of the list of books I would recommend to anyone interested in getting “into” entrepreneurship or who has an idea they’d like to turn into a business. Wonderful, and most importantly, SIMPLE advice towards getting started right away.
  • The ambitious, non-entrepreneur – After finishing this book I recommended it to my sweet sweet girlfriend. She wouldn’t consider herself “business oriented” in the slightest. But, she has an appetite for creating useful things and helping people. I feel Derek has the ability to cross between many different demographics of folks (maybe that’s because of his eclectic background? Professional musician? Circus performer?).

What questions may it have you ask, or help to answer?

I think a book is only as good as the questions it inspires you to ask of yourself, or the answers it seemingly helps to provide for questions you already have.

Anyways, some of my favorite questions asked implicitly or explicitly from Anything You Want: 40 Lessons for a New Kind of Entrepreneur:

  • What’s your personal philosophy? What to you believe, what makes you happy, and what do you value?
  • What’s the simplest (and perhaps smallest) way I can get started working on my “big vision” today?
  • “How can I best help you [my customer] now?”
  • Why am I doing what I’m doing? “Are you helping people? Are they happy? Are you happy? Are you profitable? Isn’t [or is] that enough?”
  • “How do you grade yourself?” What are your personal measures of success?
  • What’s a simple and clear problem you could solve for a group or community you are apart of, or deeply care about and understand?
  • What would you do, what systems would you have to improve or discard, if your business doubled tomorrow?

Oof! Plenty of good questions to spark some creative, deep thought.

But, without further ado, here are my takeaways, lessons and great fundamentals to entrepreneurship Derek shares from his business experience. As stated before, I do recommend you read it first!

Anything You Want by Derek Sivers: 5 Key Takeaways & Lessons

1. Deeply Understand, Contemplate & Evaluate Your WHY

Derek opens his book in saying, “Most people don’t know why they’re doing what they’re doing.” And, he quickly urges…

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“Don’t be on your deathbed someday, having squandered your one chance at life, full of regret because you pursued little distractions instead of big dreams. You need to know your personal philosophy of what makes you happy and what’s worth doing.”

Perhaps my biggest takeaway from Derek’s book was this: identify what you value and what fulfills you and do that. Ensure your expectations, ambitions and desires are your own through and through. Not someone else’s.

The only thing that I would exchange, is Derek’s use of the word “happy.” I would imagine but cannot be certain, that he would say the happiness he is referring to is relatively synonymous with “fulfillment.”

There’s nothing inherently wrong with stress or struggle. Everything has it’s shit. It’s a “choose” your shit sort of thing.

2. Business is about GIVING and Making Something Useful, Not Money

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“Business is not about money. It’s about making dreams come true for others and for yourself. Making a company is a great way to improve the world while improving yourself. When you make a company, you make a utopia. It’s where you design your perfect world. Never do anything just for the money. Don’t pursue business just for your own gain. Only answer the calls for help.”

Ahh, this was something so refreshing to read, especially when you feel as if all signals and signs are pointing to the contrary…a shot from my Facebook feed…

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He is literally holding a stack of money in his hand…and wait…

What in the hell is that equation?!?!?!?

3 – 5 clients, multiplied by $ = $$$$$$

I can’t….I just can’t…

What the hell was I talking about?

Oh, that’s right…thanks Derek. It’s nice to be reminded that our creative ambitions and appetites are best used as a means to serve and solve meaningful problems for others.

As mentioned in the questions I listed above, Derek instructs to “Never forget why you’re really doing what you’re doing. Are you helping people? Are they happy? Are you happy? Are you profitable? Isn’t that enough?”

A worthwhile group of questions to check in on regularly.

3. Keep Things Simple!

A prominent theme, or mantra of Derek’s, “keeping things simple” seemed to cover many different aspects of what Derek was trying to teach about life and business.

  • Business Plans & Strategy – “A business plan should never take more than a few hours of work–hopefully no more than a few minutes. The best plans start simple.” Don’t hurt yourself back making a new venture more complicated than it needs to be. What’s the simplest thing you can do now? Get started there, worry about the future in the future.
  • Big Aspirational Visions – Too large of a vision or aspiration can be paralyzing. Derek encourages you “start small.” “Starting small puts 100 percent of your energy into actually solving real problems for real people. It gives you a stronger foundation to grow from.” “So please don’t think you need a huge vision. Just stay focused on helping people today.”

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4. Your “North Star” in Business is Who You Serve (Customers)

Everything begins and ends with who you are serving. Without any customers, you’d have no business, right?

Derek asserts, “Care about your customers more than about yourself, and you’ll do well.”

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There are layers to using your customers as a guiding light for your business which Derek touches on in a few different ways:

  • You can’t be a “band-aid” – This is something I really like and have thought about a bit. Businesses should strive to be a permanent solution, not a temporary one. And sometimes, this means that they’d run themselves out of business. But, Derek urges, “Your company should be willing to die for your customers.”

You are in business to help others. Keep what’s in their best interest in mind at all times. So much so, that you look to completely solve the problem they have, not just provide a short-term fix.

While I struggle with the belief that the world doesn’t need another “SEO Company,” this has been my philosophy starting and running Open Book SEO, I educate my clients and customers to a point to where they don’t need me. If they ultimately don’t, I’ve done my job.

  • Business “Strategy” Comes from Your Customers – There’s an obsession with scaling, growth, and in the startup culture, getting “funded.” As Derek argued, every decision you make for your business and where it should head, who you are serving should come first. Does it improve their experience? Would expanded be better/worse for your customers? How could you expand and make it better?

If at any point there’s a sacrifice for the folks you are serving on the other end, you have a good idea of what your decision should be.

Re-calibrate with asking yourself, how could I best help my customers now? That should drive your business efforts.

  • Idea Testing? – There’s no way to know how good of an idea you have is, until it’s shared with the world. Derek says to “present each new idea or improvement to the world,” and if their response is anything less than, “Hell yes!” go back and improve and start the cycle all over again. But the key thing to note, your “good idea” is nothing without the feedback.

5. Don’t Act Out of Scarcity & Exclude Where Appropriate

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Many entrepreneurs and business owners are running their businesses off of scarcity. I’ve been doing this for the last 12+ months or so.

I’ve felt anxiety about making money, deciding exactly what vision I had for what I was doing, and doing things the “right” way.

I’m sure in many interactions people could smell the desperation on me. Being reminded here from Derek about what’s important, I focused on the inverse, abundance.

A great quote from Derek,

“If you set up your business like you don’t need the money, people are happier to pay you…set up your business like you don’t need the money, and it’ll likely come your way.”

A business built out of desperation won’t last. Or, maybe it will, but it will be damn painful running it.

Don’t forget that there’s always enough to go around. And, if you are helpful, focusing on giving vs. taking the money will follow.

And that comes to the second point here, of choice exclusion. Derek reminds us that we can’t serve everybody, but we should stay loyal to the 1% of people who we do serve. We should “imagine that you have designed your business to have no big clients, just lots of little ones.” And that “You don’t need to change what you do to please one client; you need to please only the majority (or yourself).”

Sometimes that’s difficult to forget. In my experience of running a digital marketing agency, I found often times our team would bend to the will of absurd clients. We didn’t know where we stood, and we let a few clients run our business vs. us tell them what we could do for them.

And this is the power and empowerment that comes with being confident about not serving everyone, remember that the are more than enough of the people who align with your values (who are willing to pay you), you just have to draw the right line in the sand, the one that truly does align with your philosophy and let them know.

Conclusion: Want More Derek Sivers?

Yeah, me too. I know I can’t wait for his new book, “Hell Yeah, or No.” If you are interested, you can check out his personal site, https://sivers.org/.

A great book at a perfect time for me. I’d say Derek’s healthy approach to entrepreneurship is perfect for the ambitious twenty-something who can be victim to an existential crisis or two.

A few of Derek’s guiding principles can take you a long way, and that’s what I feel they did, and will do, for me.

Have you read Derek’s book, Anything You Want: 40 Lessons for a New Kind of Entrepreneur?

If so, let me know in the comments and post one of your favorite quotes. If you haven’t, go ahead and pick up the Kindle copy on Amazon, here.

 

Filed Under: Book Reviews, Business, Life

The Art of Learning by Josh Waitzkin (Summary, Review & Quotes)

August 29, 2018 by Cory Ames

Looking for insight on The Art of Learning? 

You’ve come to the right place. 🙂

The Art of Learning by Josh Waitzkin

I had to read The Art of Learning: An Inner Journey to Optimal Performance, by Josh Waitzkin multiple times through to catch every single perspective shifting piece of wisdom. To date, this is the best book I’ve read on the learning process and performance psychology.

Josh explains his process for learning through the narrative of both his chess and martial art careers. I highly recommend you read this book for yourself, but read further and you’ll get my largest takeaways related to the learning process, below. See this book on Amazon for purchase and more reviews

Before we dive into the takeaways, I should share some more on Josh.

Brief Background on Josh Waitzkin

Josh grew up in New York City where he began playing chess at the age of 6 in Washington Square Park. Josh became a furious chess player. Called a chess prodigy, Josh won multiple National Championship Titles in elementary school.  In 1993 Paramount Pictures released the movie Searching for Bobby Fischer, made out of a book written by Josh’s father, which depicted Josh’s first run at winning a National Chess Championship.

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After he accomplished all he wanted to in the chess world, Josh moved into the world of martial arts. At the age of 21, he started with learning Tai Chi Chuan. Josh went on to win multiple Tai Chi Chuan Push Hands National Championships as well as compete and win in  Push Hands World Championships in countries like Brazil and Taiwan.

Today, Josh still focuses on teaching others how to achieve peak performance, but in small quantities at a private Brazilian Ju Jitsu gym in New York.

Bio Source: http://www.joshwaitzkin.com/josh/ Photo Source: http://www.joshwaitzkin.com/photos/ 

THE ART OF LEARNING SUMMARY, TAKEAWAYS & KEY QUOTES

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Josh’s take on learning is made up of universally applicable, timeless principles. This book contains not just lessons on learning, but many profound life lessons as well. If there was anyone you wish could be your mentor, I think it would be Josh Waitzkin.

  • Cultivate Presence of Mind – To perform at a high level, we must diligently and consistently, focus on being present. It’s not a state we can just “turn on,” if we aren’t practicing it. Our everyday lives must reinforce how we hope to perform, when we are called to perform at the highest level.

“The secret is that everything is always on the line. The more present we are at practice, the more present we will be in competition, in the boardroom, at the exam, the operating table, the big stage. If we have any hope of attaining excellence, let alone of showing what we’ve got under pressure, we have to be prepared by a lifestyle of reinforcement. Presence must be like breathing.”

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  • Bring your Unique Self

“Our natural voice is what grounds us as we encounter challenges and opportunities along the learning process.”

Me: You must become your style of: a CEO, salsero, bi-lingual, etc. spending your time trying to become someone else’s will only create exhaustion and make you weak in the face of disruption and challenge. Be very open-minded, but don’t lose yourself.

  • Begin with the Foundational Principles

“Tactics become easy once the principles are in blood.”

“The objective is to have the most basic principles, patterns, ideas, techniques, etc. feel like natural intelligence (or essence).”

“Deeply internalized concepts can be accessed without thinking.”

Me: Immerse yourself in the Fundamentals first. Perhaps the most present theme throughout The Art of Learning, Josh pushes for focusing on never jumping too far ahead. If you can’t dribble a basketball with your left hand, you shouldn’t be trying spin moves yet.

  • Depth over Breadth, understand the Macro from the Micro

“It is rarely a mysterious technique that drives us to the top, but rather a mastery of what may be a basic skill set. Study positions of reduced complexity (micro), to develop and understand the principles or the larger picture (macro).”

Me: Similar concept to focusing on the fundamentals…but different in that it’s possible to learn the fundamental principles and concepts of any field through one situation. Josh uses the example of learning all the fundamental principles of chess, through focusing voraciously on one game-like scenario.

  • Develop a Growth Mindest

“Investing in loss is giving yourself to the learning process. A learner with a growth mindset will be more concerned with the learning…vs. the identity and ego concepts that are associated with losing.”

“When aiming for the top, your path requires an engaged, searching mind. You have to make obstacles spur you to creative new angles in the learning process. Let setbacks deepen your resolve. You should always come off an injury or a loss better than when you went down.”

Me: Josh calls the growth mindest, “investing in loss.” Winning or losing is not important, what’s most important is what you learned from each experience.

  • All things are connected, and to see things this way will accelerate your ability to learn

“Truth be told, this is what my entire approach to learning is based on—breaking down the artificial barriers between our diverse life experiences so all moments become enriched by a sense of interconnectedness.”

Me:  There is always a connectedness between our many life experiences. There is potential to unearth a lesson anywhere, that can tie back to any practice.  A hike in the woods or a dance lesson with your girlfriend can help you to unlock a truth or push through a roadblock in your sport, skill or art.

This is also to say, how you do anything is how you do everything. It’s much easier to snap into focus and concentration while on the soccer field or in a meeting, if you live your life outside of your sport or work with a similar present, focus.

  • Take Diligent Notes

Me: This is more from some of Josh’s interviews, but Josh preaches the importance of taking notes and keeping records of your growth and learning process. If you aren’t tracking your development intentionally, making improvements is much more like guesswork.

JOSH’S PROCESS ON LEARNING IN ONE QUOTE

“My vision of the road to mastery—you start with the fundamentals, get a solid foundation fueled by understanding the principles of your discipline, then you expand and refine your repertoire, guided by your individual predispositions, while keeping in touch, however abstractly, with what you feel to be the essential core of the art. What results is a network of deeply internalized, interconnected knowledge that expands from a central, personal locus point. The question of intuition relates to how that network is navigated and used as fuel for creative insight.”

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Conclusion: LEARN HOW TO LEARN

Again, The Art of Learning: An Inner Journey to Optimal Performance has been the best book on the learning process I’ve found to date.

Josh’s book has received acclaim from high performers like; Mark Messier, 6-Time Stanley Cup Champion, Cal Ripken, Jr. a member of the Baseball Hall of Fame, and Jim Loehr, CEO of the Human Performance Institute.

The 4-Hour Chef, by Tim Ferriss has a great opening section on learning, and I would highly recommend that as well, but Josh’s book still stands out to me as the leader.

If you have read Josh’s book, what did you think? Were you not able to put the book down, like me? What was one of your favorite life lessons Josh shared?

Let me know in the comments below!

Filed Under: Book Reviews, Education

Is College Worth It? The Value of Higher Education

August 8, 2018 by Cory Ames

Making the decision to not pursue a college education purely on cost is short-sighted. While I’ll discuss the variable of cost (as it is just one of a few), this is not an essay that will give you a clean estimated return on your investment in education. There are plenty of those already.

Is College Worth it_ The Value of Higher Education

To reduce a decision like this to cost is dangerous for yourself (or your child) as well as our society. If I was 18 myself right now (my girlfriend likes to remind me that I’m still not far off), I would hope to know all the variables and stakes at play so that I could make an informed decision about my future.

Likewise, if I was a parent, I would want my kid to consider the same.

And so, to comprehensively address this question we must first discuss the current realities at play in deciding whether or not to go to university (including cost). And after we’ve covered that, we will narrow the focus to the implications for the individual (you or your child) and society.

When I talk about an education, I am referring to an education that is widely inclusive. Not just vocational studies/training (business, accounting, engineering, medicine), but inclusive of the humanities as well; philosophy, english, history, etc., the “liberal education.”

Now, what realities face higher education?

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Let’s address the realities that are at play as we go about making our conclusion as to the worth of a college education:

The hottest response right now is to seek alternatives to the traditional path of a college education…albeit seemingly riskier.

We are all aware of tuition costs (and debt) dramatically rising…

Coding bootcamps are growing, the most risk tolerant among us are advocating for learning on the job reviving an apprenticeship model, and enrollment rates in secondary and tertiary education in the United States have been declining for the previous four years. This is the first time in history this has happened.

The credentials (a college degree) aren’t the sure ticket to a well-paying job that they once were.

Employers are saying graduates are the least prepared they’ve ever been to enter the workforce, and alternative post-grad programs like MissionU are working to directly combat this issue and hopefully shake up the higher education status quo.

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We are seeing the growth of Massive Open Online Courses or MOOCs which are increasing the accessibility to education, for dirt cheap, and in some cases, with world class instructors.

As the enrollment rates begin to drop many free marketeers proclaim “the market is responding!” Young people and old are beginning to say they won’t pay for a university degree given the cost and dwindling career advantages.

All this considered, we should be cautious to let the “market correct itself” to provide a cheaper and more effective solution. When profit is at stake, the best things for society or an individual can be compromised on…(gasp!).

The “market” has driven many of our academic institutions to become athletic institutions who offer courses on the side as earnings are funneled into buildings, coach salaries, and new stadiums. So, maybe we take care in letting market give us a solution we may or may not want. The “market” in many ways, created the existing circumstance.

So while the existing circumstances look grim for our pursuit of education…turns out, a proper education is something worth fighting for. Why’s that? Let’s explore.

What’s the purpose of an education anyways?

Before we get to what the actual purpose of an education is, we should first address the most common misconceived belief as to why you would pursue a college education.

A college education should prepare us to produce for the economy, get us a good job, with decent pay and security.

This is incorrect. Although, most people it would seem (especially Americans) believe that’s the case. And so, our education system and our culture of education reflects that. Being incepted out of the economic circumstance of the industrial revolution, we’ve assumed for generations we need nothing more than good workers. We encourage that if young people do go to school they learn something practical and don’t waste their time with the study of the liberal arts.

When in fact, it’s been show that humanities majors find more success in the workforce anyways…

For more on this, watch Sir Ken Robinson’s Ted Talk below:

If this were all we needed, then we might as well do away with the institution of college, ya? If all we needed was a vocational education, we should all go learn on the job.

But, the importance of a comprehensive, liberal art education has been around for hundreds, if not thousands of years. In fact, many of our founders thought it so. Benjamin Franklin believed a widely expansive education was the most direct path to better serve humanity.

Thomas Jefferson thought that the liberal art education, an understanding history and how society ran was critical to America remaining a free country and never becoming subject to tyranny, oligarchy and producing an aristocracy (even though today, only 3% of students attending the most competitive universities have come from the bottom 25% of income by household. 74% come from the top 25%) [Source: Zakaria, Fareed. In Defense of a Liberal Education]

. This was a bipartisan belief. Jefferson’s greatest political rival at the time, John Adams, thought the same.

In fact, none of the greatest minds I’ve researched, be them old dead white guys or not, have said that the purpose of our education is to go learn a marketable skill, or learn how to make money…but of course, we know that education in a society follows wealth (not the other way around).

Rather, like Noam Chomsky said, the ability of an individual to seek out what is significant, to cultivate and practice creative thought, those are the purposes of our education…and making an education more vocationally focused (while putting students in debt) forces students into a life of conformity. All they know how to do is make money and how convenient, they have all this debt to pay off.

If we see that the purpose of college is not the job we get after, but rather something else, are things like credentialism really a problem?

If the purpose of our education was to produce workers for the economy, wouldn’t we just be creating the modern day equivalent of factory workers (while charging them massive amounts of money)?

The True Value of Education

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From my research, I have devised that the true value of our education is to not make money, and so should not be simplified to trades/vocations only, but rather it’s to serve two purposes:

  • Protect us
  • Prepare us (not for a job, but for life’s challenges)

An Education as Protection:

Many of the founders believed that wide access to a comprehensive education would be what kept our society “free,” and allowed us to develop a “natural aristocracy” as Thomas Jefferson called it. A society in which the best and brightest floated to the top and governed the most important affairs.

On a similar thread, John Dewey, a philosopher and psychologist of the late 19th and early 20th century, believed that education’s purpose was not to teach us material but the skills of critical thinking and logical analysis to protect us from manipulation, dangerous assumption or fake news (did you know the less educated an individual was, the more likely they were to vote for Donald Trump? Weird coincidence).

An Education as Preparation:

While our current education system has been built to reflect the interests of producing money (see Ken Robinson’s video above), that’s not what it should prepare us for. I’m not saying prepare us to make living…remember that’s a byproduct.

What problems are facing today’s generations, and what problems will face future generations? Are they tasks and issues that will require assembly line style of thinking? Or something more divergent…

Don’t confuse running Facebook Ads or SEO as skills that aren’t much different than that which was required of the factory worker.

Do we really need more workers? Or, do we need more critical thinkers?

devastated-factory

Our environment is degrading, over 40 million Americans live in poverty, 25 percent of our kids do…that’s the highest in the developed world.

Are solving those issues going to require someone who has been taught to make money, or perhaps understand history, society and seek out what’s important?

Protection & Preparation Won’t Come From Any Education…

John Dewey, mentioned earlier, also makes a critically important point, that the student must claim their education.

This is one thing that bothers me about the claims that “our schools” aren’t preparing our kids. While there are uninspired professors, bureaucratically created courses/programs and an overabundance of administrators, what’s the variable that has some kids graduate from one school and find the success they want while other students from the same university don’t?

Well, it’s the student of course. I believe a proper education can be found in either environment, independent of an institution or enrolled in one (while each harbors it’s own risks). But, your education must have the following qualities (source: Don’t Go Back to School: A Handbook  For Learning Anything by Kio Stark)

  • Community and Collaboration
  • Feedback Loop
  • Curriculum (& Style)

  • Real-World Context
  • Internally Driven

Community and Collaboration –

While MOOCs have been great to increase the access and decrease the cost to education, the intention of these platforms weren’t for the already developed world. In fact, these platforms were designed to provide access to a high quality education where they otherwise wouldn’t be one. And, they are doing a wonderful job at that…[Source: Zakaria, Fareed. In Defense of a Liberal Education]

One of my favorites: MIT Open Courseware

The online platforms are wonderful, but not a chance will they replace the experience of being on campus with a built-in community. Loneliness is already becoming a critical issue, why would we seek to eliminate one of the most social experiences of our life? College.

If you do determine to learn independently of a traditional institution, you must be cognizant of this first and foremost. Learning does happen best in groups.

classroom-lecture

Feedback Loop –

While many students (and professors) despise the system of grading, it’s important purely for the fact of feedback. While maybe we could do away with the grade and just focus on the evaluation and critique, the pillar of feedback is essential to actually learning anything.

Independently learning or not, this feature must be included. That’s the great thing about enrolling in college. You must finish the paper, you must give the presentation, you must complete the project. And, you will be evaluated on your performance.

Curriculum (& Style) –

Also, the beautiful thing about a traditional college experience (in theory) is that you have an expert on the subject you are studying hand create the curriculum, readings, and the progression of learning it will take for you to become knowledgeable or proficient in the subject at hand.  

Missing in the college experience is attentiveness for the learning style of the individual. This understanding must come from you.

As an independent learner however, you have to uncover a curriculum yourself, through interviewing experts, having conversations and research. While certainly rewarding, it’s certainly more intensive and a lot to ask of yourself.

Just consider how many hours a college Eastern European history professor has devoted to studying the history of Eastern Europe?

Real World Context –

Perhaps the largest critique of our college institutions is the lacking real-world context. Learning isn’t transferred from the classroom to the real word [source: Taleb]. While I believe there are many programs (studying abroad), courses, and clubs where you can find this. You do have to seek it out.

Internally Driven – 

Learning must be fun. It must be driven by curiosity and intention. That’s how things stick. That’s an important characteristic to how we work as humans.

We must cultivate curiosity, we must be bored with the book, but not reading, we must fall in love with learning. This, is what I enjoy most about being an independent learner…I don’t read anything I don’t want to, but, through pursuing curiosity I read more than I ever have.

Now that we know what our education must look like, how do we decide what path is right for us?

fun-learning

How to Decide: Should I Go to College?

There are a few variables worth considering, the first and most important is:

  1. YOU (Or your child)

What type of person are you, or is your child? There is a real reason that we have these institutions (colleges) in place to bridge our young people from life at home to life out in the world. Normally, they aren’t mature enough to be completely independent.

This is critically important to acknowledge: To receive a comparable education independently of a traditional college there will be SO MUCH asked of you as an individual.

Not only do you have to begin providing for yourself, paying rent, etc. you as well have to find a community that supports your learning goals, a means to receive feedback and mentorship,  develop your own curriculums, and most difficult, keep yourself accountable.

If you think that learning on the job will be enough, then I would say think again…in most of those scenarios all you’ll learn are skills that are meant to produce money. If you are thinking, “what else is there?” then good luck. In most cases, no one in the professional world is taking the time to discuss with you, what’s the purpose of life, what makes a good life, what makes you happy and what makes an equal and free society?

While you may not think these questions are important, pursue making money for a few years and tell me you don’t feel empty.

2) Community

One thing I find completely misguided is our American culture’s obsession with and glorification of independence.

In college, unlike most other times in an American’s lives, we are thinking as a community. Even if we are just deciding that we will buy cheap champagne and make mimosas on Saturday morning instead of going to the library, we are making the decision together.

Upon leaving college, I think this is something that leads to a post-college funk, we start thinking “I” more than anything else.

  • How can I pay rent?
  • Where can I afford to live?
  • How do I buy a car?
  • How do I get a job that I like?
  • How do I make friends after college?

There’s something unique to the community based thinking, this “we.” Being an independent thinker is overblown. We have enough of those. Rather, I prefer a critical thinker who sees themselves as part and responsible for a community.

3) Investment –

Such a sad truth that this has to become part of our decision making process, but it does. Not for the sake of the money you are missing out on making for being in school, but rather for the potential crippling effects that debt can have on a young person.

As mentioned earlier, our current education system creates a culture of conformity. You accumulate all this debt attending school and you then have to find a job that pays you well to pay it off. And so the cycle goes.

If you are in a position where you’ll be paying for college 100% out of pocket, I’d strongly encourage considering more cost-friendly alternatives or see how you can find support to getting your education paid for. There are many friendly and helpful organizations that are serving such a need.

college-lecture-hall

To Close: What if I was to do it again?

I am not a college graduate. I withdrew in the second semester of my junior year. So, you may think that I believe college to be a complete waste of time. But, I don’t. If I was 18 and just graduated high school I would do the following:

  • Determine what type of education I want (not what type of material I want to study, that’s a waste)
    • Do I want to study abroad and travel?
    • Do I want to make close friends and be apart of my community?
    • Do I want great professors?
    • Do I want access to programs that let me create my own course of study?
    • Do I want intellectual challenge from my peers?
    • Do I want to work on the side? Perhaps pursue an apprenticeship? Or, pursue my own projects at the same time?
  • For me, attending school part-time with an open course of study that allowed me to still work or pursue other projects in my other time would be most ideal. Given that’s the case, I’d develop of list of schools/locations that may be best for me.
  • Next, I’d asses the cost of these schools, and my own cash/funding scenario.
    • Am I getting any support?
    • Would I have access to any scholarships or grants?
    • Could I negotiate having an employer pay for my education? (Actually possible)
  • I would try to mitigate cost as much as possible, knowing which schools I wanted to attend. There is a lot of scholarship money and private money available. We are the wealthiest country in the world…remember?
    • Be creative. You can probably go to school for free.
  • I would research the best rated professors at my school and take their classes.
  • I would participate in programs abroad
  • I would enjoy the community and relationships that are built into your college experience.

And lastly, I’d take it one year, one quarter at a time. If you know that the purpose of an education is not the credential (in fact the credential is becoming less and less important), then what’s the rush?

Likewise, if you know that your education and your competencies develop out of your own gumption not given to you by the university you are attending might you take different action?

Frankly, I think the aspects of community, diversity of study, and rich experiences are too important to pass up on. If your primary object for yourself (or your child) is to make money, then college isn’t for you. Also, don’t think that.

I believe entering into a bit of a broken system with the awareness of it’s faults can still allow you to make the best of it.

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Do you think about your eating habits? Did you know that the way you eat can affect not just the length of your life but the quality of it? Eating right can make you smarter, a better athlete, and happier.

But what’s eating right? Well, I’ll tell ya. Or…uhh…Mark will. 

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Have you been chronically injured from running? Have you purchased cushiony, highly supported running shoes and received zero relief?
If so, I have some good news, it doesn’t have to be that way.
In his book, Born to Run: A Hidden Tribe, Superathletes, and the Greatest Race the World Has Never Seen,  Christopher McDougall asserts well…that we were…born to run.
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